What Dreams Are Made Of

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-07-15T10:02:00.000-07:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

Gay Marriage...Why does everyone feel it's different?

2011-07-04T12:33:00.000-07:00

The other day I received a phone call from a local newspaper, asking me how I was planning to "gear up my business for when the GAYS start calling." Really??? At first I was a little taken back by the question. Then I decided to tell her exactly what I was planning on doing...NOTHING! Marriage is the uniting of 2 people that love each other...whether it be a man and a woman, 2 men or 2 women. I wouldn't treat a gay couple any differently than a heterosexual couple...would she? I was pretty confident that my comments would not be included in her article...I was right!

Why do people feel that since NYS has finally decided to allow equality in marriage that this would be different than a heterosexual couple who decide to wed? It amazes me as to just how ignorant people still are!

My friends, The Spiezio's will be maried one year in October. Their wedding took place in Provincetown, MA. The reason they had a destination wedding was because NYS wouldn't recognize same sex marriages. Congratulations to Tamme and Christine as your marriage is now legal in our state!

Tamme and Christine met when Tamme's daughter, Isabelle was only 6 weeks old. They met through friends, and just clicked immediately. Although they both felt an immediate connection, Tamme was married at the time, to the father of her children. A few years later, Tamme and Christine realized that they were meant to be together. Tamme told me that "I see now that nothing would have kept me away from her, or her away from me. I feel like every person that I ever met in the last 20 years was just a stepping stone to meeting her. We were meant to be together:"

I asked Tamme what an "average" day is like in the Spiezio house. Her response was "average day?" Chrissy does everything. HA!!! Sadly, that's true" "She gets the kids up, and makes their lunches. She makes sure they brush their teeth and does all of the cooking." Christine understands that Tamme is trying to run 2 businesses and is much better at time management than her wife is. She keeps up with all of the daily stuff to keep their house a home. Per Tamme, "she keeps me sane!" Tamme and Christine are also my friends on Facebook and I just love the daily posts to and from each other...

"I LOVE YOU"..... "I LOVE YOU MORE!"

Everyone that knows the couple knows that Wednesday night's are date night. That's the night when the kids are with their biological father. That's the night that they spend enjoying each other, no phones, no emails, no business!

Christine loves Tamme's 2 children, and the love is certainly reciprocated. We worked a wedding together this past weekend, and Christine was leaving early to get home to pick up Isabelle and do some grocery shopping. She said to me..."I'm the wife, you know!" When she talks about the kids, her face glows! She refers to them as "our kids"! They have a wonderful, stable life. They are nurtured and loved every minute of every day!!! It's so important to her that they eat healthy. They don't eat at fast food restaurants like McDonalds. Chris prepared a wonderful dinner every night and they eat as a family.

Thank you, NYS for finally acknowledging the fact that people in love deserve to be married, whether you are gay or straight. And to the young reporter from the newspaper, I hope I answered your question.

If you are in love and want to get married, give us a call. We treat all of our couples the same way! We work with other wonderful wedding vendors who have the same beliefs and ethics. Whether it be an officiant, florist, baker, dessert buffets, caterer, photographer or any other vendor needed to make your day perfect, we can plan the wedding that you deserve and have always dreamed of!

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-05-19T16:02:00.000-07:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-05-19T15:52:00.000-07:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-04-10T06:46:00.000-07:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-03-31T13:56:00.000-07:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-03-27T06:26:00.000-07:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-03-19T11:59:00.000-07:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-03-09T15:28:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-01-07T10:23:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-01-05T07:26:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2011-01-03T07:19:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

Hiring a Planner...Necessity vs. Luxury

2010-12-28T07:43:00.000-08:00

If I had a dollar for every time I heard the question asked, I'd be rich. "Should I hire a planner?" The answer is YES!!! For one thing, by hiring a planner, you are immediately removing practically all of the stress and aggravation that's directly related to planning your own wedding. Most engaged couples today just simply do not have the time or the energy to properly seek, select, negotiate and enter into contrac

ts with their vendors. It's a painstaking task to make sure that you are choosing a vendor that is honest, dependable and professional, not to mention available for the date that you have chosen. A good planner will listen to your vision, calculate your budget and then choose suitable vendors for you to interview. A great planner will negotiate better prices and are in the position to save their clients alot of money by obtaining discounts on vendor services. Let's face it, you'll hopefully only need their services once,as you are planning to spend the rest of your life married to the same person. But, a planner will give a vendor repeat business, so the vendor is more apt to offer savings to us.

I know alot of vendors that offer planners a "finders fee" or commission. What Dreams Are Made Of... feels that this practice is unethical and will not accept "kick backs" from these vendors. Instead, I will pass on these "bonuses" to my clients, which could add up to between 25 and 50% (or even more) of our planning service fee.

Many venues offer an in-house coordinator, and that's great, but let's just remember who they are employed by. The bill for the venue, which usually includes the food and drink, is the biggest expense. So, who will be watching them??? I, on the other hand, am employed, or hired by YOU. I work for YOU, not the vendor.

A planner is by your side, through the entire planning process. On the day of your wedding, the only responsibilities that you will have will be to look gorgeous and enjoy the most romantic day of your life. We will do the rest, ensuring a day full of fun and LOVE!

So, while hiring a planner is certainly considered a luxury, I feel that it's more of a neccessity, as we will step in, obtain the best prices for you, keep all of your vendors "honest" and on time and be your support system on your wedding day, making sure that your day goes completely as planned, while removing all of the stress of the day. You will leave for your wedding night, relaxed, stress free and in love!

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-12-28T07:04:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-12-19T06:02:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-12-15T07:44:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-12-12T15:23:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-12-11T07:06:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-12-03T05:42:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-12-02T06:57:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-26T14:27:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-22T05:40:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-17T08:06:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-14T10:04:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-13T11:04:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-12T07:20:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-11T06:57:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-09T06:53:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-08T05:06:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-07T07:09:00.000-08:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

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Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

2010-11-02T06:09:00.000-07:00

Martha Stewart Weddings -- Darcy's Weddings Idea of the Day

Snowflake Cookies

2010-11-01T06:11:00.000-07:00

Snowflake Cookies

Bright Bridal Flowers

2010-10-31T05:34:00.000-07:00

Bright Bridal Flowers

Creative Table Numbers

2010-10-30T13:39:00.000-07:00

Creative Table Numbers

Centerpieces with Branches

2010-10-29T06:23:00.000-07:00

Centerpieces with Branches

50 Ways to Wed

2010-10-28T06:40:00.000-07:00

50 Ways to Wed

2010-10-28T06:39:00.000-07:00

50 Ways to Wed

For Your Rehearsal Dinner

2010-10-27T08:13:00.000-07:00

For Your Rehearsal Dinner

DIY Candy Buffets

2010-10-26T11:44:00.000-07:00

This wedding season, we've seen lots of candy displays, many of them replacing the traditional wedding favor. Many venues, planners and design companies are offering this service to clients. I've done some number crunching and have realized that this is a great DIY project that will save lots of money!

It takes a very minimal amount of time to set it up and the candy can be purchased in bulk, either online or at your local "warehouse" grocery store. We checked out Sam's Club and BJ's. A really spectacular display for around 100 guests will run you in the neighborhood of $150-, a far cry from the $3.50 to $5 per person that wedding vendors are charging.

Basically, you only need different size and shape glass containers. The candy is so colorful, it provides alot of the decor itself. I have a huge collection of jars and vases, and offer them to my clients if needed. I've accumulated them through yard sales, flea markets, and the wonderful sales at Hobby Lobby! A great idea for height is to use old phonebooks and other sturdy items, under the linen. Staggering each jars height gives the buffet a great look!

As you can see, we didn't purchase expensive candy! Jelly beans, gumballs, and all of those candies that you loved as a kid!! And it looks so amazing! Colorful cookies and mini cupcakes also work so well.

Ceremony Markers

2010-10-26T06:39:00.000-07:00

Ceremony Markers

Welcome Gifts

2010-10-25T07:29:00.000-07:00

Welcome Gifts

Fruit Cake

2010-10-22T09:06:00.000-07:00

Fruit Cake

Truly a Dream Wedding!

2010-10-21T10:45:00.000-07:00

The view from the rooftop of The Mount...Spectacular!

Imagine it's your wedding day. Today, you will be a princess, being married in a castle like setting, at Mt. St. Alphonsus! You arrive a few hours before. You are getting your hair and make up done by LaV Beauty, and you feel so beautiful.

Now, it's time to slip into your wedding dress, provided by

The Bridal Cottage.

The photographer arrives to take pictures of you getting ready. You are so confident that Tamme from Tamme Stitt Photography will capture the most amazing memories of your wedding day. Shoes, tiara, veil. You know that you'll bring a tear to his eye when he looks at you for the first time. It's time to go. Your maid of honor hands you your bouquet, a beautiful array of colors, designed especially for you by Flowers By Lucille. Your dad kisses you on your cheek, just like he kissed you every night as he tucked you into bed. I fluff your train, and...

The music begins, and you and your dad walk down the aisle, every eye is on you. But your eyes are on him, your groom. First glance!! He looks amazing! Before all of your friends and family, in them most amazing chapel, you are united in marriage.

The officiant says "I Now Pronounce You Husband and Wife..." and you kiss!!!

Everyone is applauding. You take his arm and walk down the aisle, happier than you have ever felt in your life...You're married!!!

You step outside, into the most amazing location. The property overlooks the Hudson River. Cocktails are being served on the lawn, as it's a beautiful autumn day. In the middle of this beautiful lawn is a majestic white wedding tent, and all is provided by Sav on Party Rentals. It's party time!!! Great entertainment provided by one of our top area DJ's, Jimmy from Lutz Entertainment, Great decor... Fabulous food provided by one of the Hudson Valley's premiere caters, Parties by Tomas!

Your wedding day dreams have all come true!

A Wedding At The Mount

2010-10-20T11:39:00.001-07:00

This morning I had the incredible pleasure of working with some of the finest wedding and event vendors in our area. We are so excited to begin the planning stages of what should be one of the Premiere Wedding Events in the Hudson Valley. Details of this event will follow... I'm sure you are all curious!!!